Men vs. Women – finally the truth
August 1, 2011
So we all – speaking for the young generation- know the advantages of facebook. It’s communication, entertainment and presentation of our awesomeness all in one. But most of all, it’s a great source of research – for example: It shows the difference of men and wen. Since facebook became our second live, it shows up even online.
Men just see things differently. Different than we would expect them to.
And as you gonna see now, even online. Here’s the brilliant example of the different apperceptions, straight from facebook and brand new.
Enjoying the sun, I took some fun pictures of me with my ipad-webcam outside and of course, one of them ended up on facebook.
After one hour, I logged in again. I got three likes and two comments; one of them female and the second one male. My best friend (who’s the female one) recognized the beauty of this pictures and got a ‘like’ from me. Smiling and expecting something similar, I read the male comment written from my cousin.
“It seems like nice weather…”
Yeah. That’s exactly what a girl wants to her when she uploads and posts a picture of herself.
However, instead of loudly blaming every single male creature on earth, I realized that the brain of men just work differently.
They just fail in telling women what they need to hear. Or want to hear.
But we shouldn’t blame them. We are not better, are we? Let’s say the guy we’re dating brings us some we don’t really like. No roses. Not even close. What would most of us do? How many women would really be happy, feel loved, appreciated and attractive after this, would not care about the absence of roses and excuse it completely?
Most of us would act shortspoken or act just differently. That’s where it’d end for us but do we ever truly care about the guy? Do we every worry about his feelings and what he maybe expected?
All these misunderstandings are only caused by our lack of the ability to reconstruct what a man thinks. Instead, we assume or spend hours and sometimes a recognizable amount of money trying to figure out what a man really thinks. And the sad part: Mostly, we fail.
No one knows if this lack of communication between men and women gonna disappear someday. It might never change at all. But to be really honest: We like it that way. We probably would never admit it but we actually like spending nights awake figuring out what one sentence of a guy meant. We like chatting with our best friends for hours discussing the chances of being liked by a certain guy. We like analyzing every single movement and smile of a guy while being in math class.
So after all, we don’t need to change this world in the end.